ADHD Symptoms in Adult Women
Women with undiagnosed ADHD may have issues at work or in relationships. It is important to identify the signs and find a treatment that works for you.
Symptoms of ADHD in adults are more likely to be the inattentive type than hyperactivity/impulsive. A proper diagnosis can assist you in improving your life by managing your symptoms and focusing on what is important most.
1. Trouble paying attention
Women may have difficulty paying attention to details, remembering appointments and deadlines or underestimating the amount of time it takes to complete a task. They may also struggle to keep track of their obligations in relationships or work and are easily distracted and fail to keep their promises. They might also struggle with the urge to be impulsive, difficulty controlling their emotions and a tendency to blurt out things without thinking it through first.
The inability to pay attention that is experienced by ADHD symptoms in women who are older can lead to problems with relationships and friendships and relationships. That's why it's crucial to spot the symptoms and seek treatment. Women may have difficulty to establish new friendships or struggle in their relationships due to frequent arguments and opportunities to have enjoyment, and being ignored. They can also have a harder time balancing the demands of work, home and childcare.
It can be difficult for health care providers and therapists alike to diagnose ADHD in a lot of people. It doesn't mean that it's not real or that the person needs to work harder to stay focused. Diagnoses are based upon the symptoms and how they affect daily functioning in multiple areas.
Women are more likely to suffer from inattentive symptoms than those who are hyperactive or impulsive and this could be the reason why they aren't diagnosed. Additionally many women suffering from ADHD are afflicted with a sense of shame about their symptoms because they don't fit into the stereotypes of someone with ADHD. This can make it even more difficult to reach out for assistance or seek treatment.
In some cases women suffering from ADHD remain undiagnosed for a long time because they are trying to cope and conceal their symptoms. They are more likely to suffer from comorbidities, such as anxiety or depression that can cover up the symptoms of ADHD. They are more likely to have hormonal fluctuations, which can cause their symptoms to flare up or disappear. This is especially relevant during menstrual cycle, pregnancy, and perimenopause.
2. Organizational Problems
Forgetfulness, disorganization, impulsivity, and emotional dysregulation are all common ADHD symptoms for women. These signs can cause them to be incapable of completing everyday tasks, fulfill their obligations or maintain relationships. They may also have low self-esteem or be anxious. Women with undiagnosed ADHD often feel as if they are failing to meet societal expectations and have a harder time keeping up with their peers in terms of academic performance or job performance. They also have a harder time maintaining social relationships.
ADHD in women can manifest itself as procrastination, hyperfocus, or forgetfulness. These problems can cause women to skip appointments, not pay bills on time, and feel overwhelmed. Hyperfocus can lead to a loss in focus on other important tasks as well as a misunderstood understanding of time. This makes it difficult to shift from one task to another. Procrastination can cause anxiety, stress and a constant feeling of being lagging behind.
Communication issues both non-verbal and verbal, are another common symptom of ADHD. This could mean excessive talk or interrupting others or saying inappropriate words. This could include an inability for her to be patient or having difficulty understanding social boundaries. It is important to note that these behavior patterns don't necessarily mean the absence of intelligence or capability.
Many women suffering from ADHD develop coping mechanisms to disguise their symptoms, which can have positive and negative consequences. Some of these strategies for coping could be healthy, like keeping a schedule for the day or setting reminders for certain events. Some of these strategies for coping might be healthy, for instance, making reminders for events or using alcohol and other drugs to mask symptoms. It is therefore important that women who suspect they have ADHD seek professional help.
Women with ADHD may benefit from medication, lifestyle modifications or therapy as well as other treatment options. Some of these include cognitive behavior therapy to deal with negative thoughts and beliefs, mindfulness and relaxation techniques and exercise, a balanced diet, and adequate sleep. A doctor might also suggest accommodations to make working or school more comfortable.
3. Disruptive Behaviors
Women with ADHD might experience emotional dysregulation. They may become frustrated and discontent when their problems aren't easily resolved. This makes it difficult to maintain relationships with loved ones, friends and colleagues. For example, forgetfulness or impulsivity may increase frustration or confusion in relationships with loved ones and lead to feelings such as loneliness or depression. A tendency to seek thrills on the spur of the moment could be mistaken by others as an absence of interest or apathy.
This is one of the reasons ADHD symptoms for girls and women are often missed or underdiagnosed. They might also have a hard time understanding that their issues are caused by the disorder due to social norms and stereotypes about gender roles and behavior.

Women and girls with ADHD might conceal their symptoms to avoid embarrassment. This can result in them being diagnosed less frequently than boys and men who suffer from the same symptoms. Additionally there is a gender bias in research that determines diagnostic criteria could contribute to this disparity. In a recent study, Hartung and Widiger found that women and girls are more likely to be unidentified and not diagnosed than men and boys who have similar ADHD symptoms. This could be due to the fact that clinicians are conditioned by their training to think of hyperactive and hyperactive and impulsive ADHD as more prevalent in both men and boys. This can make them easier to recognize and refer to a specialist for evaluation.
Adult ADHD symptoms can manifest as irritability and difficulty in calming down. These are typical ADHD symptoms however they can affect the life of an adult. People with ADHD may feel restless or find it difficult to remain still. ADHD hyperactivity symptoms in adults is especially true if they're feeling anxious or stressed. They are also susceptible to fidgeting and tend to be extremely talkative, frequently interrupting or finishing other people's sentences without thinking they're being rude.
If you suspect that you suffer from ADHD, your doctor or a registered psychologist can refer you to psychiatrists for an assessment. You can also self-refer. This content was reviewed by Madeline Dykes (clinical psychologist) as well as members of the Thriving Madly network in Christchurch in October 2024, and updated in November 2022.
4. Social Skills Problems
Women who suffer from ADHD may have difficulty managing their emotions or communicating effectively at work. This can cause problems that interfere with personal relationships and professional goals. They may be unable to recognize and responding properly to feedback. This could lead to disappointment or anger. They might also have difficulty trying to maintain healthy eating and sleeping habits, which can increase anxiety. Some women who suffer from ADHD utilize unhealthy strategies for coping to compensate for their problems. They may resort to eating disorders, addiction to substances, and non-suicidal harming of oneself (NSSI) which includes cutting, burning or scratching.
As women grow older, those with ADHD may find it more difficult to seek treatment than men, as they are more likely to hide their symptoms. In order to be accepted by society and conform to expectations, they usually develop coping strategies. This makes it difficult for others to recognize their ADHD symptoms. These strategies for coping may be as simple as setting reminders and creating lists, or they may be more complex such as finding ways to control their emotions or developing mindfulness strategies.
These coping strategies can be counterproductive and cause worse symptoms. They can also make it difficult to achieve good sleep, which is essential for managing ADHD symptoms. In addition, women with ADHD often feel overwhelmed by life's demands, which can add to stress and further exacerbate their ADHD symptoms.
It's true that boys are more likely to be diagnosed with ADHD than girls. However the gap gets smaller as they get older. This is because women typically suffer from a variety of symptoms throughout the course of their lives. This can result in different diagnoses.
The fluctuation in hormone levels can impact ADHD symptoms in women. For instance when they have high levels of estrogen during pregnancy, their symptoms might improve. Higher levels of estrogen regulate brain chemicals that influence the ability to focus. If their estrogen levels decrease due to perimenopausal changes or aging, ADHD symptoms may worsen.
Adults suffering from ADHD can receive an accurate diagnosis and access effective treatment. These include cognitive behavior therapy (CBT) neurocognitive psychology, and other treatments that can help people with ADHD improve their daily functioning. They are also able to attend support group meetings for ADHD to share their experiences with other people on the same journey and gain valuable insight from their colleagues.